Loving Cup

LOVING CUP CEREMONY

On this your wedding day, we celebrate the Celtic spirit of the anam cara. Anam cara is translated from the Gaelic as “soul friend.” By entering in a partnership with your anam cara, you are joined in an ancient and eternal way with this person whom you most cherish. In everyone`s life there is a great need for an anam cara and so I ask you to toast one another by repeating the following.

(The Bride and Groom hold the loving cup as they repeat the following)

Bride/Groom:
Today I recognize you, my anam cara
And ask that you become a part of me, in sacred kinship.
With you, I have lost all fear and have found the greatest courage.
I have learned to love and let myself be loved.
With you, I have found a rhythm of grace and gracefulness.
Love has reawakened in my life; a rebirth; a new beginning.
With you my anam cara,
I am understood,
I am home.

Officiant:

And now, please drink to the love you`ve shared in the past.

(The couple take turns sipping from the loving cup)

Officiant:
Drink to your love in the present, on this your wedding day.

(The couple take turns sipping from the loving cup)

Officiant:
And drink to your love in the future and forever more.

(The couple take turns sipping from the loving cup)

 

© Rev. Ray Cross
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